GirlTip #105: Does Your Schedule Have More "Have-To’s" Than "Want-To’s"?
By Rachel Simmons
When girls engage with what they genuinely care about, they are happier, more motivated, and more resilient. The College Application Industrial Complex forces teens to trade the experience of learning & curiosity for the appearance of a flawless resume. Encourage girls to draw 2 columns on a page: what I “have” to do every week, and what I want to do. If the “have to” column is long, consider the changes you can make to get closer to more “want-to’s.” It’s there you’ll find the fuel to thrive. Credit: Tara Christie Kinsey of the Hewitt School.