Comments on: How Summer Camp Can Change a Girl’s Life

By: Rachel Simmons

Rachel Simmons — Thu, 20 May 2010 11:20:05 +0000

Hi Jackie – well, I guess my advice is in this blog post, and another way to say it would be to guide your daughter into new social situations where she would have a chance to experience different (and healthier) kinds of friendships. I’d advise you to ask her what she wants (in terms of goals) for her friendships in the next few months. What does she want to have happen this summer? If she says, “I don’t know,” press her to come up with one thing, and then see if you can work with her to accomplish it. Important thing is that she owns it and wants it for herself. IF she doesn’t want it, and seems listless or like she doesn’t care, you may want to call a professional for some advice, like a social worker or psychologist. Good luck!

By: Jackie

Jackie — Fri, 14 May 2010 18:31:53 +0000

I am the mother of a 13yr old girl in 8th grade. Majority of her peers are interested in boys. My daughter has friends at school but when it comes to the weekends, she does not reach out nor does her phone ring/text.
She has experienced a negative “friend” situation from a friend she has known since she was 4yrs. old. This “friend” ignores her at school for no reason. I am afraid this has compromised her confidence. Any advice ?

By: Melanie

Melanie — Thu, 13 May 2010 13:36:09 +0000

This blog-post brought tears to my eyes! I remember the confidence-building days of camp AND those bullying days all too well. Your work is vital- keep up the good work! I would like to have a similar impact on adolescent girls one day, too. -Melanie