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	<title>Comments on: Lilly&#8217;s Blog: An Open Letter to Adults About Teen Sexting, Sneakiness and Apathy</title>
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		<title>By: Ronie James</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronie James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 12:59:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I must acknowledge that this is the first time I’ve ever read anything on this website, passed on from a link. This entry expresses so much honesty about such absurd resentment. There are many people who share your viewpoint, and are fighting to make people aware that teens aren’t so stupid, and deserve to be treated as the people they are, not the people they’re assumed to be. The link in my name is to a site for people like that. It’s the official site for an organization called the National Youth Rights Association. I got the link to come here through their forums. I’d be honored if you took a minute to look at the site, even if you looked once, left and never mentioned it again, it’d be amazing for it to occur.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must acknowledge that this is the first time I’ve ever read anything on this website, passed on from a link. This entry expresses so much honesty about such absurd resentment. There are many people who share your viewpoint, and are fighting to make people aware that teens aren’t so stupid, and deserve to be treated as the people they are, not the people they’re assumed to be. The link in my name is to a site for people like that. It’s the official site for an organization called the National Youth Rights Association. I got the link to come here through their forums. I’d be honored if you took a minute to look at the site, even if you looked once, left and never mentioned it again, it’d be amazing for it to occur.</p>
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		<title>By: &#8220;You&#8217;re Teaching My Child What?&#8221; Video Review Part 4! &#171; fearfree</title>
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		<dc:creator>&#8220;You&#8217;re Teaching My Child What?&#8221; Video Review Part 4! &#171; fearfree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2010 04:43:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] that speak to what I related in this section. On the day that I recorded this, I also found this interesting open letter to parents about what teens are up to. It really speaks about the scare tactics in this society aimed towards [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] that speak to what I related in this section. On the day that I recorded this, I also found this interesting open letter to parents about what teens are up to. It really speaks about the scare tactics in this society aimed towards [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel Simmons</title>
		<link>http://www.rachelsimmons.com/2010/02/lillys-blog-an-open-letter-to-adults-about-teen-sexting-sneakiness-and-apathy/comment-page-1/#comment-479</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel Simmons</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Ryan, thanks for stopping by - I&#039;ll definitely check out your site! Lilly and I appreciate your support of this post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Ryan, thanks for stopping by &#8211; I&#8217;ll definitely check out your site! Lilly and I appreciate your support of this post.</p>
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		<title>By: Adelaide Dupont</title>
		<link>http://www.rachelsimmons.com/2010/02/lillys-blog-an-open-letter-to-adults-about-teen-sexting-sneakiness-and-apathy/comment-page-1/#comment-477</link>
		<dc:creator>Adelaide Dupont</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 00:23:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Much appreciated, Ryan.

Teenagers and young people do have more political power in their own right than many may realise.

Thank you again for the National Youth Rights Association.

And I&#039;m glad you chose to come to Lily&#039;s blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Much appreciated, Ryan.</p>
<p>Teenagers and young people do have more political power in their own right than many may realise.</p>
<p>Thank you again for the National Youth Rights Association.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m glad you chose to come to Lily&#8217;s blog.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan Luchs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan Luchs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I must acknowledge that this is the first time I&#039;ve ever read anything on this website, passed on from a link. This entry expresses so much honesty about such absurd resentment. There are many people who share your viewpoint, and are fighting to make people aware that teens aren&#039;t so stupid, and deserve to be treated as the people they are, not the people they&#039;re assumed to be. The link in my name is to a site for people like that. It&#039;s the official site for an organization called the National Youth Rights Association. I got the link to come here through their forums. I&#039;d be honored if you took a minute to look at the site, even if you looked once, left and never mentioned it again, it&#039;d be amazing for it to occur.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must acknowledge that this is the first time I&#8217;ve ever read anything on this website, passed on from a link. This entry expresses so much honesty about such absurd resentment. There are many people who share your viewpoint, and are fighting to make people aware that teens aren&#8217;t so stupid, and deserve to be treated as the people they are, not the people they&#8217;re assumed to be. The link in my name is to a site for people like that. It&#8217;s the official site for an organization called the National Youth Rights Association. I got the link to come here through their forums. I&#8217;d be honored if you took a minute to look at the site, even if you looked once, left and never mentioned it again, it&#8217;d be amazing for it to occur.</p>
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		<title>By: Silver Fang</title>
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		<dc:creator>Silver Fang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 22:42:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adults always want something to bitch about. Teens make an easy target. People imagine vices that 90% of teens don&#039;t indulge in. Teens re targets because they have no political power.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adults always want something to bitch about. Teens make an easy target. People imagine vices that 90% of teens don&#8217;t indulge in. Teens re targets because they have no political power.</p>
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		<title>By: High Schooler sets the record straight</title>
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		<dc:creator>High Schooler sets the record straight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 22:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] read this and twittered it but it&#8217;s worth posting again.  Lilly is bright and I enjoy this blog. Lily [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] read this and twittered it but it&#8217;s worth posting again.  Lilly is bright and I enjoy this blog. Lily [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Amy Jussel, Shaping Youth</title>
		<link>http://www.rachelsimmons.com/2010/02/lillys-blog-an-open-letter-to-adults-about-teen-sexting-sneakiness-and-apathy/comment-page-1/#comment-473</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy Jussel, Shaping Youth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 21:52:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post as always, Lilly...

The helicopter parents prob is a huge one; and I&#039;m constantly trying to tamp down flames of sensationalism on the sexting front; but it really doesn&#039;t help when corporate coffers are lined with &#039;bottom feeders&#039; asking girls to post their butts online (Please help get the word out on the American Apparel girlcott petition that Rachel and I are BOTH supporting:  http://bit.ly/cpNnkK )

Also, there ARE some alerts that adults AND teens should be advised of (like the nefarious netbots called &#039;flirt bots&#039; to usurp your digital data as I wrote about yesterday in the ramp up to Valentine&#039;s Day: http://j.mp/91nMiI but again, this is less of a &#039;teen scene&#039; concern and more of a hacker/privacy issue one. (see PC Tools/PCAdvisory mag)

Overall, I think the bubble-wrapping dynamic is driven by media misinterpretation and ratings games (not to mention some techno tools that aren&#039;t doing teens many favors by CREATING some panics, like the daily &#039;grades&#039; updates plopped into a parents&#039; inbox leading to micromanagement of academic assignments when kids used to just get plain ol&#039; paper report cards sans updates of &#039;what&#039;s due&#039; every  nanosecond! 

I think digital nagging, tracking, social media status updating etc. is becoming an apocalyptic generational divide causing needless angst and furor.

If I were a teen I&#039;d feel violated and stalked...Listen up, parents. Lilly&#039;s prose should give you a bracer of a reality check. If not, why not?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post as always, Lilly&#8230;</p>
<p>The helicopter parents prob is a huge one; and I&#8217;m constantly trying to tamp down flames of sensationalism on the sexting front; but it really doesn&#8217;t help when corporate coffers are lined with &#8216;bottom feeders&#8217; asking girls to post their butts online (Please help get the word out on the American Apparel girlcott petition that Rachel and I are BOTH supporting:  <a href="http://bit.ly/cpNnkK" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/cpNnkK</a> )</p>
<p>Also, there ARE some alerts that adults AND teens should be advised of (like the nefarious netbots called &#8216;flirt bots&#8217; to usurp your digital data as I wrote about yesterday in the ramp up to Valentine&#8217;s Day: <a href="http://j.mp/91nMiI" rel="nofollow">http://j.mp/91nMiI</a> but again, this is less of a &#8216;teen scene&#8217; concern and more of a hacker/privacy issue one. (see PC Tools/PCAdvisory mag)</p>
<p>Overall, I think the bubble-wrapping dynamic is driven by media misinterpretation and ratings games (not to mention some techno tools that aren&#8217;t doing teens many favors by CREATING some panics, like the daily &#8216;grades&#8217; updates plopped into a parents&#8217; inbox leading to micromanagement of academic assignments when kids used to just get plain ol&#8217; paper report cards sans updates of &#8216;what&#8217;s due&#8217; every  nanosecond! </p>
<p>I think digital nagging, tracking, social media status updating etc. is becoming an apocalyptic generational divide causing needless angst and furor.</p>
<p>If I were a teen I&#8217;d feel violated and stalked&#8230;Listen up, parents. Lilly&#8217;s prose should give you a bracer of a reality check. If not, why not?</p>
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		<title>By: Adelaide Dupont</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adelaide Dupont</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 02:32:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Merci, Lily.

Maggie Hamilton is one of the people who thinks that teenagers might have one website for their parents and another for their friends.

I think I remember either Rachel Simmons or Alyssa Quart discussing this make-up ad: &quot;11:15 at the mall. 3:15 home to your mother&quot;: the duplicity of it all.

And it is adults being duplicitious in the name of protection.

Yes, I see the hypocrisy in this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Merci, Lily.</p>
<p>Maggie Hamilton is one of the people who thinks that teenagers might have one website for their parents and another for their friends.</p>
<p>I think I remember either Rachel Simmons or Alyssa Quart discussing this make-up ad: &#8220;11:15 at the mall. 3:15 home to your mother&#8221;: the duplicity of it all.</p>
<p>And it is adults being duplicitious in the name of protection.</p>
<p>Yes, I see the hypocrisy in this.</p>
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